10 Wrong Reasons for Getting Married

The next worse thing after Hell is a bad marriage.

Lust: Ordinarily, lusting after someone can make us preoccupied by thoughts of them. The fact that we are preoccupied with thoughts of someone is not a confirmation of love. We must learn not to confuse love with lust. If we get married by lustful desires, the marriage will collapse when these desires have been satisfied.

Liking the idea of Marriage: Oh, I love the idea of a gorgeous wedding gown, or smart suit. Oh, I wonder how it will look on me. Oh, they say marriage is so sweet; I want to experience the feeling. These are all wrong reasons for getting married. Marriage is an institution, it’s not easy to build.

The fear of remaining unmarried: Never feel like age or time is running out on you. The anxiety that you are growing and yet married may instigate you towards a wrong decision. Always trust in your heart and believe that there is a soul mate for you.

Pressure: Do not give in to pressure of any sort, and from any source. Make sure that you are in a good communication with your God, before you make that decision. Remember, the next worse thing after Hell is a bad marriage.

Escape from being jilted: Do not use marriage as an escape root from anything. The fear of jilt has the power to say “I do” to any proposal that comes your way.

Money: Happiness is the cornerstone of a good marriage. “When happiness is in a marriage, it becomes a home.” Arguably, money cannot buy such happiness mentioned here. Also, unfortunately for ladies, many of the extra nice men who could make great husbands are yet rich.

Beauty: This is the same as buying a real estate because of its paint. Paint wears, so does beauty. What happens next, when beauty fades? Bitterness and guilt sets into the marriage.

Accidental Pregnancy: The fact that you accidentally got pregnant or impregnate a girl does not make marriage binding for both parties.

Do not get married to satisfy your parents or hurt them. Neither get married to escape from them.

Never get married because of pity.

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How Can We Know the One Who Truly Loves Us?

How Can We Know the One Who Truly Loves Us?

Love, in the critical sense of it is sought after by many, but none can give absolute love. Then the question arises, how can we know who truly loves us, atleast for who we truly are?

I see fame, beauty, power, wealth, as a light which different insects are attracted. Everyone seeks either or all of these attributes. Anyone who is either rich, beautiful, famous, or comes from a lineage with royalty and power, battles with this question at one point. In the quest for a life partner, this question will always come to the fore at some point.

It is not uncommon for the famous to marry the famous and the rich to marry from among the wealthy too. Atleast in that way, both of them know that the other is not digging into thier wealth, fame or power. Sincerely, we don't even need to keep abreast of celebrity news to know that most of these end up breaking.

A young handsome prince was crowned. When he got to the age of marriage, he craved for true love. All the royal family members made thier recommendations, each one of them. All these ladies were beautiful and gorgeous and most of them became the prince's very good friend. But a question lingers in his mind, "how do I know the one who truely loves me, and not the crown on my head?"

How do we know one who truely loves us and not our status, achievements, fame or power. Should we always search among people of equal status because of this? Or, should we mind less if the other truely loves us, as long as we have the full conviction that our own love is true? Should we go ahead and marry another, not concerned if they are after our fame, money, beauty, status, believing that love isn't all that is needed for a complete relationship?